KEEP UR EXPECTATIONS LOW BABEZ

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
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well here’s my second commission sheet! I’m retrying this because my poor poor car got crashed into (as pictured) and I definitely will not have enough money to cover it.

My options are as follows

Head- Sketch, Line art, and Full color

Bust- Sketch, Line art, and Full color

Full Body, Sketch, Line art, and Full color

2 characters will be twice as much, 3 characters three times as much and so on,,,,

Im opening like 5 slots but if I get more I’ll probably try to get those as well.

Fill out the google form I linked here or private message me on this blog and I’ll get back to you as fast as I can.

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crimepope
dispatchesfromtheclasswar

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biglawbear

Good for this person. This is exactly what you do. Screw the job.

I had a job that made me work an all nighter, 30 hours straight, over Thanksgiving. I resigned that Monday and it was one of the most satisfying decisions I’ve ever made.

mikesmoustache

Part 3:

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invaderxan

Please pay attention to all the manipulation tactics this boss uses, because they’re pulling out every trick in the book.

  • “I’m not your boss, I’m your friend”
  • “Other people will be hurt by this and it’s your fault and I’m going to tell them all that”
  • Mocking language
  • Jobs are important too
  • “Be a team player”
  • “We’re your family too”
  • Talking as if this is a thing you must do
  • “We all make sacrifices”
  • Undermining your authority
  • “You caused all of this, really”
  • Accusing you of being “unprofessional”
  • “Look at the money you cost us”
  • “Just laugh it off and come back to work”

This is like a 101 course in how employers use guilt trips to coerce you into putting up with their bullshit. This is precisely why you should never trust those employers who insist that they’re “like a family.” They are not. It’s just a ruse so that your boss can neg you into putting your job ahead of your actual life.

zizibutik

Also not all the “we need to” and “let’s do this”, that’s also part of the “we are a family/team” tactic. They talk about US fixing the issue together when it was solely up to OP, nobody else.

Also also, take note of them trying to call him. NEVER do this sort of negotiation through a call, use texts/e-mails so there’s proof.

smokedsalmoniloveyou
yearningheart

some excerpts from heather havrilesky/ask polly's books and columns that snap me out of uselessly longing and obsessing over romantic love:

  • 'let's try this: if i told you that you would never, ever fall in love again, what kind of plan would you make to ensure your own happiness moving forward? what would you work toward? what would you do more of?'
  • 'you need to begin by painting a picture that doesn't include love. you need to stop making room in your life for someone else's love and start making room for yourself instead. [...] when you can imagine a beautiful life even in the absence of romantic love, finding love or losing it again won't seem nearly as scary.'
  • 'you must break this fixation on love as the cure all to all of your ills. if you found love right now, you would run it straight to the ground in seconds. you need an outward focus that has nothing to do with guys.'
  • 'it's time to forget about being lovable. and in fact, it's time to forsake someone else's idea of what gives you a spark or no spark. block the "other" from this picture. no more audience.'
  • 'the central challenge in your life is not finding people who will support you and love you. the central challenge in your life is you finding a way to give yourself support and love. you need to shift your concentration away from this imaginary hole in your life, and shift it towards bigger projects that will feed and sustain you over the course of a lifetime.'